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Praying with Understanding

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Prayer, I believe is a conversation between us and God, either we are giving thanks, making requests or even asking questions. Yet it is not uncommon to feel like a prayer could be such a complicated and maybe even a delicate conversation to have, after all, it's God we are talking to here. There is no way that wouldn't be somehow daunting! I remember learning to pray as a child during family devotions and how nervous I'd get, mumbling through my words, hardly able to get anything coherent out. My auntie, bless her, would jump in the middle of one of my many long pauses to rescue me and carry on with the prayer but once we were done, my uncle would almost chide her for not giving me a chance to learn and develop my confidence. I didn't blame her; I found those long pauses very uncomfortable too! So, I usually understand when people tell me they do not know how to pray and would prefer others to pray for them or they'll just avoid it altogether and some even ask if ...

Invest in Education to Help Young Nigerians

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Education has a great role to play in all this mayhem in Nigeria. Is quality education being wielded as a weapon against the less privileged? This protest has unveiled a lot to the world or should I say it confirms nothing has changed with the education system except for a rise in private schools which majority of families in Nigeria simply can’t afford. This generation is too 'woke' as they call it and are beginning to see through all the lies and deceit they are being fed. Public Schools in Nigeria is a mockery and I wonder if they think it’s every family that can afford to send their kids to private schools. Why must the less privileged always be left behind? They have been failed in healthcare and in education, two vital provisions of every responsible government to it's citizens. Don’t forget that if you do not train children as you should, they will train themselves as they see fit and God help you when that happens, it's Proverbs 22 vs 6 that says: Point ...

When God Restores

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Still watching the news with much sadness as there are still so much atrocities being committed against peaceful protesters.I'm however gladdened by the way the youths are coming together and demonstrating how resourceful they can be, they have rallied around each other, covering all bases: medical attention for the injured, raising funds to keep the momentum, providing legal services to victims and their families and a host of other exemplary actions. What this government and past ones have failed to do in decades, the youths have achieved within days. These politicians keep recycling themselves and their incompetence in elections just for the sole purpose of lining their pockets. I wonder how and when the country’s resources become a national cake that is to be shared amongst a select few! My prayer is for the youths out on the streets protesting justly and demanding for their basic rights, of which at the fore front is the basic right to life, to live a rich and full life,...

End Police Brutality in Nigeria

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These past few days have been emotionally draining for me, I've just been taken aback by the stories of sheer callousness of the Nigerian Police and it is absolutely a must they hear the voices of those demanding for change. It's just so heartbreaking that it's coming at a time when we are all dealing with this global pandemic but there has to be a change, this brutality should not be tolerated or accepted as a normal. Anyone reading this may or may not have any family or friends in Nigeria but for those of us who do, we are now more than ever checking and ensuring they are safe. I've been advising the men in my family to not wear dreadlocks or sport anything fancy as it might make them stand out as "possible criminals" ( those words sound so silly but it's a fact) even though they are well educated and upright citizens like those I have seen on the news articulately pleading their case while protesting peacefully on the streets of Nigeria! The citiz...

Sense of Entitlement

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So, I have gone through every emotion you can think of, with this dreadful lockdown. When you feel like things are taking a turn for the better, you get a rude shock! Even as I acknowledge these terrible times we are in, the fear and uncertainty that creeps in at times, like Joshua and Caleb, I continuously choose to see the other side of this where God’s mercy has prevailed over us all. (Bible Reference: Numbers 13) Ok, as much as I would hate to admit it, I have been feeling entitled of late. I am usually the one to reach out to others to check on them and make sure they are doing ok but recently, I find myself hesitating to do so, telling myself that they should be the ones reaching out to me and counting how long it’s been since this or that person checked on me and that I just couldn’t be bothered. I have since overcome that negative feeling, but it made me realize how easy one could find themselves on this slippery path of having this ‘entitlement mentality’ which could a...

Bear it gracefully and go have a blast

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Still here full of gratitude for life and trusting that this Covid-19 too shall pass. I have had my rants over these past weeks and scares as well but also ventured into the city after months of hiding away. I was even brave enough to stop for lunch at a fast food restaurant which looking back on, I probably shouldn’t have. I have learnt a lot over these past few months, I think having time on your hands forces you to reflect on a lot of things: family, relationship, life, God and most importantly yourself. I have found myself carefully considering a lot of my past decisions and if I would have done anything differently. The answer to that for me was: ‘possibly’ and that came with no bitterness as I know almost everyone of us would love to have a time machine that could help us take a trip back to the past to change a few things. I have learnt to embrace every past decision and action as it has sculpted the person I am today. Failure teaches you how to succeed. I’ve seen a lo...

Lazarus

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Happy Sunday everyone! Listening to a message this morning reminded me of a little story I had written a few months back for my kids to help them learn to pray and trust God for healing. I thought to share it this beautiful Sunday morning. 😊 Nana Flo : Why the sad face Toby? Toby : Nana Flo, I was going to go over to play on the PS4 with Ben next door, he is not feeling so well again and can’t even play with me! Toby sobbed. Nana Flo: That's a pity, I hope he feels much better. Would you like us to hold hands and pray for him? Toby: Would that work Nana Flo? I really want him to feel better, he is one of my nicest friends! Nana Flo: Of course! Oh Toby! See let me tell you something, as children of God, when anything troubles us we can always take it to God in prayer, we can communicate with him freely, anywhere, anytime having faith that he listens, that’s the key thing, choosing to trust in His plan for us. See, let me tell you the story of Lazarus: Lazarus lived in ...

Oatie Breakfast Cookies

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Oatie Breakfast Cookies: My kids would remind me over and over again how much they disliked porridge oats but since I started making them into these cookies, they have asked for it most mornings for breakfast. It takes approximately 45mins to prepare and bake in the oven. Ingredients 100g Rolled Oats 100g Plain Flour 100g Slightly Salted Butter 50g Brown Sugar 2 Tablespoon Golden Syrup 1 Teaspoon Cinnamon Powder 1 Large Egg 1/2 Cup Semi Skimmed Milk Directions Heat your oven to 170C Fan Melt the butter in hot water (not boiling) and set aside Pour all the dry ingredients (Oats, Flour, Cinnamon and Sugar) into a mixing bowl and mix together Make a well in the middle of the dry mix and add the egg, milk, syrup and melted butter **At this stage, you can add milk chocolate chunks or Blueberries if you desire** Mix in gradually with a wooden spoon (preferably) till a thick paste is formed Use your wooden spoon to scoop small portions unto the baking tray (line tray with...

Head above Water

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There is always something we seem to struggle with at some point in our lives, something that is not going as smoothly as we want. It could be anything, I mean education, work, finance, health, family, relationship, life etc. Jesus Himself did not have it easy while He was here on earth, did He? It’s always one thing or the other but always remember, you are not alone. God is always a present help in our times of trouble. At times, when you feel the weight of it all crushing you, it’s because you are trying to go it alone, there is only so much we can do on our own. Try and cast some on to God, and I mean the worry about how to bear that burden because if you want to be honest, most of that burden is actually the worry you have added on top of it. Release that worry and let God uphold and sustain you. (Reference: Psalm 55 vs 22) If you have ever experienced any kind of struggle, you’d know what I’m talking about: sleepless nights, loss of appetite, fear, distrust of everyone an...

Beauty for Ashes: Are there any known Single Moms in the Bible?

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Hagar comes to mind and I remember the difficulty she passed through raising her son all alone. In the beginning, she had no choice in the decision that was being made concerning her journey into motherhood, she was after all, a slave. This decision was made by her mistress, who only saw Hagar as an object to be used.   The Bible tells us Sarah took the maid and gave her to her Husband to be his second wife, her consent was never sought. Bible Reference: Genesis 16  There was always going t o be some problem with this arrangement, and it began from the moment Hagar knew she was pregnant. At last! she had an upper hand against her mistress, she thought, so that ugly human attribute reared its head: arrogance. This ensured that she was already on the run even before her baby was born. She fled when Sarah decided to take steps to remind her she was still the Boss! It was at this point she faced the risk of raising this unborn child alone had God not come to her help. Whe...

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